Do you ever feel with some people that you can never say the right thing? You say something that it is meant to be teasing and you apparently snapped at them. You say something that is supposed to be supportive and it's taken as a criticism. You try to sincerely apologize and it's ignored while the original slight or whatever it was is harped upon continually.
I hate that. Because I am the type of person who never EVER means to hurt anyones feelings. And even if I do I regret it the moment it is out of my mouth. So to say something innocent and be made to feel guilty about it drives me up the wall. Especially after I've apologized for something I never meant as a mean thing in the first place.
The worst part is that I get upset over something that was ridiculous to be upset over in the first place.
Hmmmff.Posted by nuala at April 28, 2006 08:15 AM